I tried this once, I sat down at the corner of my bedroom floor and thought to myself, for 10 minutes straight,Telling myself in my mind 'Saad you have a piercing headache.', and what do you know?
A little while later, my head was pounding and exploding.
That was one.
Back in 2011, I had a huge fight with one of my bestest friends in the whole wide world,
And he changed, he realized his fault and he changed, a lot.
I'll put up his picture just now ^_^
For a while, I was still not over the entire issue, lets say, to get my title into context, I still had a grudge of the past against him..
No matter what I did, he pissed me off, and I didn't like him, at all.
It was all in the mind.
When we grudge against someone, no matter how clean their intentions are, no matter how kind they are trying to be, not specifically to us, anyone in any matter, we look for an ulterior motive just to prove them evil.
And it just hurts me to see this happening, time and again.
It is said in a Hadith - " If you ask for forgiveness for any sin, it is upto Allah (SWT) to forgive you and he holds the power to do so, when it comes to hurting someone, Allah (SWT) will only forgive you after you've asked for forgiveness from the person you've hurt, and they forgive you. "
So there you go people.
Don't hate, don't grudge.
Embrace the love and the good side of people.
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